Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Anywhere University, USA

Remember the first semester away from home? This time of year, parents who watched their children cross the stage three short months ago are loading pick-up trucks and hauling freshmen off to college.
With that in mind, here’s a tool that can help even the shyest new student make a quick transition to college life. Give it to someone you know and give an excuse to make new friends.
Anywhere University, USA
First Two Weeks Scavenger Hunt
The rules are simple: five points for each item that you accomplish in the first two weeks on campus. Fifty points makes you Campus Champ.
1) Make someone laugh and relax a little by doing something goofy.
2) Bless a professor with an encouraging word. After all, profs have stressful jobs, family responsibilities, and new relationships, too.
3) Discover a new building that will be useful to you.
4) Introduce yourself to your advisor now before you need to. Bring that person a pre-thank you gift even before he helps you, just because you know he will help you a lot sometime in the next four years.
5) Tell someone a truth about God that will encourage them.
6) Meet a new person that may become a real friend.
7) Join a club. Better yet, start a new one.
8) Invite a foreign exchange student out for coffee.
9) Ask someone for there perspective on a current event and then just listen.
10) Write your mom and tell her she’s great and you miss her. Okay, I confess, this is my favorite thing on the list.
11) Bonus Points: Smile for no reason, like you have a special secret, because if you get the other ten things on this list done then you’ve already blessed a lot of people and you’ve only been on campus two weeks.
All parents plan on extra telephone time that first semester their child is away from home. As parents we hate to see our kids grow up because it means an end to an era of our life, an empty nest soon. At the same time, there is something to be said for having the nest all to yourself again. So parents make their own transition while the freshman adjusts to his new independence.
One thing about this scavenger hunt, it is sure take a freshman’s mind off himself and the adjustment. It allows him to focus his creative energy on others. By the time a student has made it to the bottom of this list, chances are good that he will have discovered a bunch of interesting people on campus, even after only two weeks. Best of all, it will probably lead to some lasting friendships.
Which leads to some other really good advice for freshmen: Don’t forget to study!

Cathy Primer Krafve, aka Checklist Charlie, lives with her family in East Texas, except when some of her children go off to college every semester and live on their own. She can be reached at CaeKrafve2@aol.com and welcomes all comments or lists.

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